CAUSES - Back Up – Living Like a Woman

In most cases, it is the women who give over the ‘power’ to the men by choosing to be financially dependent on them.

He who has the gold makes the rules.

We love men who buy gifts for us, who earn enough to fulfill family needs and take us on shopping spree, who can take us on a long drive…or better still, fly us to a vacation abroad. And all we ever want to do…is to doll up and bear their children.

Men insist that when it comes to looking after the home and cooking, maids can work better than us! Naturally, they treat us like a servant or if they feel like it, a little better than them.

There are other hordes of complaints that homemakers often come up with. They feel lonely and neglected. They feel left out or ignored when it comes to major financial decisions. When the family needs to squeeze expenses, the needs of stay-at-home mom get throttled first. In abusive relationships, women have little choice but to let things go on as they are…because ‘leaving’ means ‘no way or the highway’!

In most cases, it is the women who give over the ‘power’ to the men by choosing to be financially dependent on them.

If you really want to be treated as an equal, you will have to be ready to bear family responsibilities…just as the men do. You have to be the one who is ready to take on the world with your skills and talent…and not be afraid to flaunt your intelligence along with your beauty.

The true liberation comes when YOU know that if the man you live with does not hold the ropes; and HE knows that you can survive and thrive without him too. And then, if you BOTH choose to live together – it would be because of true love…because you have mutual respect for each other.